Navigating Neurodivergent Relationships in Vermont & New Hampshire
Couples Therapy for Neurodivergent Partnerships
When your brains work differently, your relationship needs a different kind of support.
Neurodivergent relationships often carry deep love, creativity, and connection, but they can also carry misunderstanding, overwhelm, and exhaustion. ADHD, autism, sensory differences, and nervous system sensitivities can shape communication, emotional regulation, and daily life in ways that feel confusing or frustrating for both partners.
You may love each other deeply and still feel stuck in cycles of miscommunication, resentment, or shutdown.
This is not because your relationship is broken.
It is because your relationship needs support that you need to understand how your brains work.
to connect with your partner
to feel like you can meet each other’s needs
to be on the same page
Are you struggling?
I specialize in working with couples where one or both partners are neurodivergent.
How I Support Neurodivergent Couples:
My approach is attachment-based and integrative, blending Gottman tools, somatic support, and Brainspotting to support real, sustainable change.
Understand how neurodivergence shapes communication and connection
Reduce shame and blame
Build systems that support both partners
Learn how to navigate conflict without overwhelm
Strengthen emotional safety and trust
Build a relationship that honors both nervous systems
Together we will…
Imagine a relationship:
You feel understood instead of criticized
Your differences feel workable instead of overwhelming
You have tools that actually fit your brains
You feel like a team again
Neurodivergent relationships deserve support that honors how you are wired.
Your relationship can feel steadier, calmer, and more connected.
I want you to know: